Neyara Nior

She is the Queen of Girl Talk! With a degree in English, and a Master's in Journalism and Public Affairs, her writing is your comfort food! She loves to empower women through her words, while building their confidence through beauty, style, health, and relationships. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @NeyaraNior

BEAUTY & FASHION STYLE

GET THE BADDIE LOOK EFFORTLESSLY

By Neyara Nior August 13, 2015August 16, 2017 0 2 m read 1K views

These looks I created are perfect for the office, and if you’re a city girl, they can easily turn into fabulous looks for happy hour!

Grape Crush

Do not be afraid to wear your crop top to work. It’s all about moderation. Pair it with an amazing blouse like this one. It is the perfect finishing touch to make any outfit appear elegant. Also bold colors and colorful prints always makes the perfect statement. What’s awesome about this look is that you can go straight from work to happy hour or a date night…the choice is yours. 😉

Pink Dream

Blazers! Blazers! Blazers! I love a good blazer, especially the bright beautiful one’s, and this one shows off your curves, and every Baddie wants that! You can be a classy baddie with a hint of sexy. Pewter and pink are beautiful together, and this is the perfect time to make black your statement color. A simple black strap heel, with matching jewelry will give you the professional look you desire for giving presentations, or teaching.

Peachy Pie

You can still be sexy while getting your profession on, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! Remember colors are fun, so wear them! Try a darker lip when wearing corals, and peach colors, they enhance your look. And again, why not add a bright blazer to give your wardrobe your personality? Also don’t be afraid to wear a semi-sexy heel to work. Always pair it with jeans or a skirt that goes down to at least your ankle. Get it BADDIE!

Which is your favorite look?

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LIFESTYLE WORD OF ADVICE

5 THINGS YOU DON’T NEED TO DO

By Neyara Nior August 13, 2015August 16, 2017 0 3 m read 222 views

There is so much advice on things to do to find happiness, getting the promotion you want, and to find love, but there are some things you don’t need to do to have a healthy, happy fulfilling life. Starting with these five things:

Don’t hesitate too long.

If you’ve been wanting to do something, do it! Don’t worry about what others will say, or if you fail. Get out of your comfort zone and make it happen. Sometimes when you have to make a major decision, it doesn’t feel right, and that’s usually doubt. Don’t let doubt control your life decisions. You deserve happiness. Whether you’re leaving home for the first time, finishing a book you started years ago, or starting a new business. Don’t hesitate on it if it’s something that will grow you as a person.

Don’t expect too much.

It never amazes me when people disappoint me. People are not going to always react the way you want them to, or handle a situation you think they should. Ladies, please keep your expectations low when dealing with some of these men and your friends too. We are all human, we make mistakes, and for the most part, we handle situations the best way we know how. Expectations can easily lead to disappointments, so keep your expectations of others low.

Don’t appreciate too little.

If someone does something nice for you, say thank you. No one owes you anything. So be kind, be genuine and know that there are people on this Earth that wants what’s best for you! Sometimes we’re so used to getting the shitty end of the stick that we don’t realize the good that people do for us, and want for us. Be appreciative of the small victories in life, I assure you, they matter!

Don’t love too late.

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You only get one life. Honestly, you only love purely and fearlessly once-which is usually your first love. Your first love is your purest because you weren’t afraid to love; it may have happened unexpectedly. Although your first love may not have ended with your dream wedding and house, kids and forever, you can’t be afraid to put yourself out there and love again. You deserve to love someone who loves you just as much, if not more than you love them. Don’t wait too late to realize that you are worthy of TRUE love. Have fun, laugh uncontrollably, dream decadently, and don’t let love pass you by.

Don’t give up too soon.

Tired yet? That’s fine, but do not give up! You are almost exactly where you WANT to be. Where you are right now in life is exactly where you are supposed to be, so keep going. Giving up is harder than finishing the fight. Knowing what you could have been, and what you could have done will hurt you and hunt you for eternity. You will never let it go if you give up. Give your goals, and dreams all you got, and when you feel like you have no more to give, get help! Never be afraid to ask for assistance.

It’s your World Baddie Girl!

Alright…I’m done.

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BADDIE BOSS BUSINESS HAIR INTERVIEWS

MEET ASHLEE BABBS OF BELLAAMORE HAIR

By Neyara Nior August 10, 2015August 16, 2017 0 2 m read 112 views

Started in June of 2014, BellaAmore Hair was started to help the everyday woman buy luxury hair for an affordable price. Ashlee Babbs, founder of BellaAmore Hair, knows from first hand experience how expensive quality hair can be, and how much more money we have to invest in the install as well.

How is BellaAmore Hair able to make their products affordable?

BellaAmore Hair has bundle deals, student discounts, and if you stay up to date with them on socially, you can be apart of their giveaways!

BellaAmore Hair sells a variety of 5A grade hair, including Brazilian, Malaysian and Peruvian in the forms of straight, body wave, and loose wave. FYI: The grade of hair is determined by the year of the donor. If the grade is 7A, that means that the hair donor is a younger person, usually 15 years of age or younger. BellaAmore sells grade 5A, which means the hair donor is 25-30 years old.

What are some goals for BellaAmore Hair?

To become a household name, and have a strong presence in people’s homes.
Growing the BellaAmore sisterhood within the Officially Kissed Sorority distribution program; making BellaAmore Hair the “Mary-Kay” of hair.
To be able to donate a small amount, from each order that is placed to a charity.

Ashlee has a lot of insight in starting and investing in your own company. She says that once she made her company into an official LLC, she wasn’t scared. Her advice to the Badd Girl Society is:

“Don’t be scared! I have a degree in Political Science, so when I started my business, I had to learn everything. There are a lot of things people pass up because they’re scared. I’m now reaping the benefits of success. Have confidence in your business!”

She also wants us to know that it takes money to make money, and that you have to invest in yourself and your company. You have to do the proper research, and be sure to write everything down, and keep your receipts.

Want to know a couple of fun facts about Ashlee?

She’s a lieutenant in the military! She’s also a human resource manager, and she’ll be deporting for Kuwait soon. But there’s no need to worry. Even though she’s leaving, you can still place orders, and you’ll receive the great affordable hair you wanted with a guarantee of great customer service.

If you’re interested in becoming a distributor for BellaAmore Hair, and joining in this unique sisterhood, be sure to check out Officially Kissed Sorority.

Check out these review videos!

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BEAUTY & FASHION MAKE-UP

PRODUCT JUNKIE: 8 OF THE BEST BEAUTY PRODUCTS

By Neyara Nior June 1, 2015August 16, 2017 0 2 m read 244 views

Summer, to some is the best season of the year. Summer offers lots of sunshine, beach fun, and bright colors to wear. There are many beauty secrets, and products out there to enhance your beauty, but lets talk about some of the best beauty products for the season.

If you’re one who enjoys the summer, here are some products that you should give a try, if you haven’t already.

1. EOS Lip Balm

Evolution of Smooth is the perfect name! EOS killed the game with this lip balm. You always want to have baby soft lips, and EOS lip balm line is amazing. It smells good, and comes in a cute package. The only other lip balm I would recommend besides EOS is Maybelline New York Baby Lips Moisturizing Lip Balm.

2. E.L.F. Lip Exfoliator

The secret to having soft,hydrated lips is to exfoliate. Just as you exfoliate your face, you want to do the same for lips. This simple exfoliator is easy to use, and works instantly. You will have those kissable lips that you’ve dreamed of.

3. Viva La Juicy Gold Couture

Juicy Couture fans will enjoy this sweet fragrance. It smells of wild berries, a kiss of honeysuckle and a luxurious elixir of golden amber, melted caramel, and vanilla. You won’t need much, because it does travel, but in the best way. It’s getting hot, and you should smell amazing at all times.

4. E.L.F. Mist & Set

Keep your makeup looking like you just applied it with this mist and set from e.l.f. cosmetics. With aloe, cucumber, green tea and vitamins, this refreshing product keeps your face moisturized, supple and healthy throughout the day. This is even perfect for those who have oily skin. It’s very light and refreshing.

5. Mascara Primer

Lashes are fun, and 3-D fiber mascara is just as fun, but a primer helps to keep your natural lashes healthy as well as elongate them. You can still put your favorite mascara on top, and depending n your mascara, you’ll have the 3-D fiber lash look!

6. Nail Polish

It doesn’t matter the brand, but now is the time to play with those vibrant, neon colors. Lime green, mint green, sunshine yellow, all of those colors that can come off as “tacky” in the winter now is the time to enjoy them.

7. Bronzer: LORAC TANtalizer Baked Bronzer Golden Glow.

Give yourself an extra glow, so that when the sun hits you, you look magazine ready.

8. Hawaiian Tropic Shimmer Effect Sunscreen

Sunscreen is very important, you should be wearing it year round, but now that you’re showing more skin choose this sunscreen to give you a shimmer. It’s not sticky, and the shimmer doesn’t get everywhere. This sunscreen will not disappoint you.

What are some of your favorite summer beauty products?

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LIFESTYLE WORD OF ADVICE

7 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST YOU

By Neyara Nior June 1, 2015August 16, 2017 0 4 m read 205 views

There are so many ways to better yourself, and grow daily. Everyone wants to be the best, but only a few actually put in the effort to be the best. If you’re serious about growing yourself, here are seven easy and effective ways to become a best you.

7. EDUCATE YOURSELF

Education is important, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. I’m not saying we should all be walking around with graduate degrees, but never be afraid of learning more, and going beyond. Learning isn’t always in a classroom. You can learn some of the best lessons in the real world and through traveling.

“An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.”

-Benjamin Franklin

You will always reap beautiful rewards when you’re open to learning more. You will never know your own potential if you never get out of your one dimensional box. Never settle, you deserve to explore. Be vulnerable to new experiences, take yourself out of your comfort zone and be free.

6. FIND YOUR PASION

Have you found that thing that you LOVE? That thing that moves your spirit and makes you feel alive? If you haven’t, that’s okay, because you’ll know when you find it.

When you find your passion, it will move you and those who you come into contact with you. If your passion is in drawing, writing, or building putting your all into it will be effortless. Don’t worry about anyone’s opinion, because there will be so many people that will love what you do because they will see the passion you’ve poured into your craft. We often look to be perfect at our passion, but perfection is nonexistent, because you get better each day. Continue to pour into your passion and share your passion.

5. FIND A MENTOR

Motivational speaker and self help guru, Jim Rohn, once said,

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”

This speaks volumes. I guess momma was right, huh? You are who you hang around. So make sure those five people count!

Be careful who you put your energy into, and who’s energy you allow into your life. You always want to be around those who want what’s best for you, and you should want what’s best for them in return. Although you will learn from your mentor, remember that it’s still a two lane street, you both should offer something to each other that will grow you both. You never want to be a person who continuously takes from others. Just as you are happy to receive, you should be just as happy to give.

4. BE A MENTOR

Selfishness is never a quality you want to have. Give freely, teach someone about something they don’t know, or want to know. You never know what impact you may have on somebody. You could bring out the potential and success of a person that they may not have known they had. You don’t have to tell all of your secrets, there are some things only you should know, but never be afraid to help grow someone.

3. POSITIVE PEOPLE ONLY

Negativity won’t do anything good for you anyway! Some people may not understand your plans, and future goals, so keep yourself around like-minded people who will push you to better yourself. Remove all those leeches from your life! You deserve to be uplifted even if you feel your goals are small. Pessimistic people are no good for you if you are trying to be successful at anything. Remember, you are who you attract, so if you find yourself around a lot of negativity and unhappy people, check yourself. Make sure you have a positive outlook on life, and are determined to show the greatness within you. You’ll be surprised how much your positive attitude can change your perspective, and life.

2. GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

If you want to grow, place yourself in uncertainty. I dropped everything and left for Washington, D.C., and I don’t regret it. My struggle was truly real in the city. I experienced everything from a homicide on my block, no heat in the winter to my car being crashed into in a stolen car chase. However, I met some amazing people, and I worked everywhere from NBC to the Capitol. Personal growth only occurs when you are faced with an unprecedented situation that forces you to expand your comfort boundaries. This is how you become stronger.

1. VISUALIZE WHO YOU ARE

As I continue to move forward with entrepreneurship, I often wonder what is my niche, and what I want to be known for. One of my girlfriends saw me struggling with this and she told me to write out my obituary one day. I thought she had gone crazy, (things that makes you say WTF?!). Little did I know this was one of the best things I could ever do! I had to force myself to think, how do I want to be remembered when I depart this Earth, how I want my future great-grandchildren to see me, and, in all, the legacy I would be leaving behind. I tell anyone who is trying to find themselves to do the same. Of course you don’t have to write your obituary, but at least write out the type of woman you want to be, and what you want to be known for. Sit down, write the vision and make it plain!

Remember that you’re valuable, know yourself worth, and believe in yourself; I promise you will be happy, and live an awesome life. Go get what’s out there for you, whether you start your own business, or go overseas to volunteer. Never stop growing, accept your flaws, and know that your life has already begun.

What are you doing to become the best you?

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DATING LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER: DON’T BE CONTROLLED BY HIS WORDS

By Neyara Nior June 1, 2015August 16, 2017 0 2 m read 140 views

So, I’m sitting in Sunday School, one Sunday (long ago-okay not that long ago…okay it was long ago), and we’re discussing the power words have. My teacher began talking about how there is power in our words, and that we should speak life.

Many of us are told this, but how many of us actually believe there is power in our words, and actually speak positivity into our lives and the lives of others?

So of course twenty minutes in, my mind has wandered off, (sorry Jesus), into how powerful words are in relationships. I began to think how much power we, as women, put into a man’s words, and how we often give men power so willingly just by the words he speaks.

Ladies, we have to remember that although there is power in the words a man speaks, there is also power in the words that we speak.

We all know there are so many men, who will tell you any and everything you want to hear, just to get you were they want you. This is why actions are so important. So many times we pay attention to only what they say, and let their words take control, when we should also stay mindful of their actions because they are saying everything. For example, they aren’t calling as much, they are texting. They stop asking those caring and important questions like “how are you” or “did you have a good day?” But because they throw around a few “love you’s” we no longer look at their actions.

Men can speak really great game, and they know this. They know they can finesse, charm, and be the casanova they so anxiously want to be.

I always tell my girlfriends to know they’re man, decipher through the talk, and access effectively. I am a firm believer in men tell you everything in the beginning. Men love to “lay down the law,” think about it. If you pay attention and listen to him, you will learn a lot more about him than you think. Men talk just as much as women. So when you go out, talk less, and listen more.

When you do speak, think first. He doesn’t need to know everything on the first date, or the fifth date. Let things flow, and grow organically. But never be afraid to say what you want. This doesn’t mean put everything on the line on the first date, but you should know what you want, and not be afraid to have expectations. You can’t waste your time having two-hundred first dates in a year.

Dating is fun, but know what you want so that you don’t waste your time on unnecessary men, and possibly unnecessary heartbreak.

Are your eyes and ears open?

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BUSINESS MONEY

NO MORE RAINY DAYS: 4 WAYS TO SAVE MONEY

By Neyara Nior June 1, 2015August 16, 2017 0 3 m read 139 views

Don’t save for rainy days, save to keep them sunny! Here are a few ways to save money so that you can have everything that you want.

“You save money to keep from having rainy days!”

That’s what my mom would tell me when it came to saving money.

“Always have money, because you never know what may happen. You don’t want a situation to happen that costs hundreds of dollars that you need, and it leaves you in the hole. Budget wisely,” she’d tell me.

(She’s an accountant, so I guess she would know.)

Here are four easy ways to save money:

1. COOK MORE, EAT OUT LESS!

Rest in peace to all the money spent on fast food this year alone. How many meals have you cooked this year? Have you made any effort to cook?

Eating out gets costly, and eating fast food everyday is dangerous. I’m not saying that eating healthy is cheaper, because it can be costly too, but it is not as unhealthy and costly as ordering a number two-larged, for seven days straight. Cook a meal every Sunday, or on the day you have some free time. Left-overs aren’t going to kill you. If you can’t get enough of eating out, try and make it count and eat out only on the weekends, you can start with Friday.

2. PLAN AHEAD!

Want to go out of town for the weekend next month? or buy ten new outfits for the season? or purchase some new bundles of hair for an event at the end of the year?

Then it’s time to start setting extra money aside along with the money you should be putting aside for your savings. Planning ahead is all about budgeting. You need to know how much whatever it is you want will cost. Once you know that number figure out a date that you want to purchase it. When you know the cost and date you want it buy, you can start saving, whether you’re putting an extra $50 or $100 dollars to the side. But remember to still put aside your regular savings money. Be smart about your money, you’ve worked too hard for it.

3. COUPUN IT!

Did you forget about the Sunday paper? They still get printed, and have so many coupons available.

Coupons are not for the frugal, but for the money conscious person who knows the value of a dollar. This is one thing you don’t have to be extreme about although there are many who are. Even if you don’t want to buy the paper, you can go to your favorite brand company website, and they usually have many coupons available. There are also many sites that have coupons waiting to be used. Also, read the coupon, you don’t have to get what’s pictured, there are usually a list of products for you to choose from. See? Knowledge is power!

4. GIRLS NIGHT IN!

Picture it! Your besties, board games, girl talks, good laughs, delicious food and lots of champagne. Sounds like fun, huh? I know!

Spending a night in with your girls, can be just as much fun as going out. The plus is that you can save more money because you won’t have to pay for parking, an entrance fee, food, drinks, and whatever else. Hanging with friends will be fun no matter what, so have a budget friendly night in one or two nights a month. You can cook, everyone can bring a dish, or you can order wings, and make a few sides. I promise you’ll save money, and still have fun

What are you doing to save your money to keep your days sunny?

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EVENT COVERAGE EXCLUSIVE

EVENT RECAP: SYLEENA JOHNSON’S “COUPLE’S THERAPHY” WATCH PARTY

By Neyara Nior April 1, 2015August 16, 2017 0 1 m read 197 views

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If you took a break from reality television and watched BET’s premiere of one of the original R&B Diva’s, Syleena Johnson’s “Couples Therapy,” you enjoyed a treat.

“Couple’s Therapy, based on her latest album, which shares the title, aired Monday, March 30, 2015. The musical was directed by Tangie B. Moore and stars Syleena and other R&B artists Leela James, who was in attendance, Dave Hollister and Willie Taylor.

Syleena Johnson and Leela James

Syleena was very excited about her BET premiere; she was all smiles, and a few tears too! For the event, Syleena was surrounded by plenty family members, friends, and a few fans. Hosted at Nancy’s pizza in Midtown Atlanta, there was plenty of food and drinks to celebrate all of the hard work that was put into making this musical as awesome as it was.

Happy Syleena!

Tears of Joy!

Afterwards, it was all about fellowship and showing love. Of course the night wouldn’t have been complete without Syleena showing love for Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc.

A Moment for Zeta Phi Beta

The best moment was when I won a copy of the album the movie was named after!! I’ve been jamming to it ever since.

How did you enjoy the premiere of Couple’s Therapy?

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All Posts By Neyara Nior

Grape Crush

Pink Dream

Peachy Pie

Don’t hesitate too long.

Don’t expect too much.

Don’t appreciate too little.

Don’t love too late.

Don’t give up too soon.

1. EOS Lip Balm

2. E.L.F. Lip Exfoliator

3. Viva La Juicy Gold Couture

5. Mascara Primer

6. Nail Polish

7. Bronzer: LORAC TANtalizer Baked Bronzer Golden Glow.

8. Hawaiian Tropic Shimmer Effect Sunscreen

7. EDUCATE YOURSELF

6. FIND YOUR PASION

5. FIND A MENTOR

4. BE A MENTOR

3. POSITIVE PEOPLE ONLY

2. GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

1. VISUALIZE WHO YOU ARE

What are you doing to become the best you?

Don’t save for rainy days, save to keep them sunny! Here are a few ways to save money so that you can have everything that you want.

1. COOK MORE, EAT OUT LESS!

2. PLAN AHEAD!

3. COUPUN IT!

4. GIRLS NIGHT IN!

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