We have all been in those situations, when we really like a guy, and we hope that he likes us back just the same, but his actions prove otherwise. The sad part is that we know he isn’t worth our time, and that we shouldn’t waste our time because we know our worth, yet we try and be perfect hoping he will notice.
The simple fact of the matter is, if a guy can’t recognize the greatness of who you are through you being you, he doesn’t deserve you. Here are a few quick suggestions on how to determine if a man is not worth your time.
10. He has too much baggage
A couple of baby mommas, a side chick, and bad credit. Don’t do it to yourself! Let’s keep this one simple: Don’t add extra baggage to your life that you don’t need.
9. You only hear from him through text messages
If you keep up with Baddie Girl, then you already know how I feel about text messages. If a guy ONLY communicates with you through texts, he may only want sex, or you’re just occupying time until he meets the girl he really wants. Men go after what they want, so if he isn’t putting real effort into you, then don’t get too emotional, because…he ain’t worth your time.
8. He’s In A Different State
This is not me saying that long distant relationships don’t work; however, if you meet a guy who happens to live 2,000 miles away from you, and you all met online, don’t start planning the wedding. I thoroughly believe in the saying, “out of sight, out of mind” and after a while if you all have not seen each other in person, the spark dies out. He will forget about you, and you will forget about him, so don’t try and force it!
7. He Has Fallen Off
If he used to call you everyday, but now you barely hear from him…he has officially fallen off. I’ll leave it to your besties to tell you that maybe he’s working or that he may have just gotten busy. I’m here to give you the truth. Yea, he may be busy, but busy don’t last always. If he puts any type of space between you two, where there was previously no space, he has fallen off. The End.
6. You Don’t Trust Him
If your man has done something to break your trust, please take time to heal. You cannot have a real relationship with that man if you’re always wondering what he’s doing, and if he’s up to no good. You should only be consumed with the positives of your relationship. If the relationship is worth another chance leave the negative in the past, and work towards a better future with him.
5. He Openly Flirts With Other Women
Blatant disrespect is an absolute no-no, yet some women love to act as though they don’t see it. Him flirting with the waitress who is taking your order, is not okay. It is never okay for a man to disrespect you, and public disrespect is just rude. You first have to respect yourself, and know your worth. It makes it easier for you to find a man who will treat you like the queen you are.
4. You Constantly Have To Defend His Actions
This can also be known as making excuses for a man. I can go on for years about this one, so I’m going to leave this one at: Don’t do it! because It should never happen.
3. You’re Giving A Yard–He’s Giving An Inch
Giving should be natural on both ends. Just as much as you want to give of yourself, he should want to give of himself. You should never feel as though you are giving too much of yourself in any relationship. So, if you’re giving, giving, and giving some more, while all he’s doing is taking away…he ain’t worth your time.
2. You Have To Beg For Time
Spending quality time should be something you both want to do. It doesn’t matter if you all go for a walk in the park, have a picnic or have an illustrious date night. If you ever have to ask when are you going to spend time with a man, or when will you get some of his time…he ain’t worth your time.
1. Your Gut Tells You…He Ain’t Worth Your Time
We as women have an intuition that we sometimes ignore. All your intuition is, is your soul speaking wisdom to you. We will be talking to a man who resembles most, if not all of these qualities listed above, and still invest time into him. Let’s do better, collectively.
These are just a few of my ways to tell if a man is not worth your time. You may agree or disagree. If you disagree, please let me know. And, although this post is catered to the man in your life, it can also go for friends, and for the fellas the same apply to us women.
What are some attributes of someone who is not worth your time?
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