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5 THINGS YOU DON’T NEED TO DO

By Neyara Nior August 13, 2015August 16, 2017 0 222

There is so much advice on things to do to find happiness, getting the promotion you want, and to find love, but there are some things you don’t need to do to have a healthy, happy fulfilling life. Starting with these five things:

Don’t hesitate too long.

If you’ve been wanting to do something, do it! Don’t worry about what others will say, or if you fail. Get out of your comfort zone and make it happen. Sometimes when you have to make a major decision, it doesn’t feel right, and that’s usually doubt. Don’t let doubt control your life decisions. You deserve happiness. Whether you’re leaving home for the first time, finishing a book you started years ago, or starting a new business. Don’t hesitate on it if it’s something that will grow you as a person.

Don’t expect too much.

It never amazes me when people disappoint me. People are not going to always react the way you want them to, or handle a situation you think they should. Ladies, please keep your expectations low when dealing with some of these men and your friends too. We are all human, we make mistakes, and for the most part, we handle situations the best way we know how. Expectations can easily lead to disappointments, so keep your expectations of others low.

Don’t appreciate too little.

If someone does something nice for you, say thank you. No one owes you anything. So be kind, be genuine and know that there are people on this Earth that wants what’s best for you! Sometimes we’re so used to getting the shitty end of the stick that we don’t realize the good that people do for us, and want for us. Be appreciative of the small victories in life, I assure you, they matter!

Don’t love too late.

You only get one life. Honestly, you only love purely and fearlessly once-which is usually your first love. Your first love is your purest because you weren’t afraid to love; it may have happened unexpectedly. Although your first love may not have ended with your dream wedding and house, kids and forever, you can’t be afraid to put yourself out there and love again. You deserve to love someone who loves you just as much, if not more than you love them. Don’t wait too late to realize that you are worthy of TRUE love. Have fun, laugh uncontrollably, dream decadently, and don’t let love pass you by.

Don’t give up too soon.

Tired yet? That’s fine, but do not give up! You are almost exactly where you WANT to be. Where you are right now in life is exactly where you are supposed to be, so keep going. Giving up is harder than finishing the fight. Knowing what you could have been, and what you could have done will hurt you and hunt you for eternity. You will never let it go if you give up. Give your goals, and dreams all you got, and when you feel like you have no more to give, get help! Never be afraid to ask for assistance.

It’s your World Baddie Girl!

Alright…I’m done.

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BEAUTY & FASHION STYLE

CLUTCH ESSENTIALS: A BADDIE’S GUIDE TO PACKING A CLUTCH PERFECTLY

By Baddie Girl Team June 1, 2015August 16, 2017 0 333

Learn how to pack your clutch, and choose items that you need. Everything in your purse isn’t essential, so leave the unnecessary behind.

Just as you need the perfect clutch, you also need to pack it right.

Unlike having your ordinary, big, over the shoulder purse that you can fit your entire house in, a clutch is much smaller, so you have to be more selective when packing.

Here are my top 10 items that are a necessity to fill your clutch. I know 10 may seem like a lot for a clutch, and you may not need everything on this list but most of these items are small, and most importantly, they are essentials!

10. Lipgloss/Lipstick:

Reapplication will be necessary in the event of a great night.

9. Powder:

For my oily skin girls, no need for your nose to glow like you’re Rudolph the reindeer. You’re too pretty for that!

8. Compact Mirror:

Bathroom occupied? No problem. You can make sure you’re together whenever, and wherever you want. Don’t forget to check your teeth!

7. Mini Perfume/Body Oil:

Smelling good is essential to being a baddie girl, and it could be a conversation starter with the guy you noticed checking you out from across the room. It is your duty as a woman to ALWAYS smell good!

6. Mints/Gum:

Bad breath is a tragedy. Don’t get caught up in the rapture of everyone dodging you because you ate too many stuffed mushrooms. You should know that fresh breath is a common curtesy.

5. License, Debit Card, Cash & Change:

There isn’t a need for a large bulky wallet, you can easily slide these important cards into a business card holder, or small change purse.

4. Phone charger:

You know you live by your phone, and you know you die a slow death when your phone is on seven percent and you’re enjoying yourself. Don’t torture yourself.

3. Hand Sanitizer:

You can grab a small bottle from Bath & Body. Clean hands are always important, and plus you never know when you may need a last minute sanitize.

2. Stain Remover Pen:

Thank God for Tide, because it never fails, you’re laughing, and having fun, and then some sauce hits the front of your amazing outfit. No need to fear if people will judge you and your eating habits, because your stain remover pen is here!

1. Condoms:

I hope this one didn’t scare you. HA! But for those of you who are “active” safe sex is the best sex… You can put them in your change purse with your license and debit card so that it won’t fall out of your purse by accident, because that could be awkward. 🙂

What’s in your clutch?

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BEAUTY & FASHION STYLE

CLUTCH LUST: FINDING THE PERFECT CLUTCH

By Baddie Girl Team March 18, 2015August 16, 2017 0 191

A great clutch is a necessity during every season of the year, and are universal for everyday wear, after-five, or it could be a great date night accessory.

Finding a great clutch is always a must! The awesome thing about clutches is that they are so stylish that they can be the statement piece to your outfit, that is if you have the perfect pair of heels to match.

Here are eight fabulous clutches that will enhance your spring clutch collection and make all others lust after you and your great sense of style!

1. Kate Spade New York Holly Street Remi Clutch

Pretty in PINK! Pink is always in. This clutch is the perfect date night clutch. Because of its girly appeal, you can wear this clutch to that upcoming wedding or even to any special event you have on your calendar this year. It’s so elegant and classy!

2. Women’s Rebecca Minkoff ‘Leo’ Envelope Clutch

All nude everything! Every girl needs a simple nude collection in her closet. Nude heels, a pretty nude dress, and here’s the perfect nude clutch. It’s very sleek, and looks very clean. It has that pretty girl next door feel. Its cute for brunch or weddings.

3. Debutante Straw Wristlet

Inspired by the South of France, this wristlet is rich in color, and texture. You can find it in yellow multi-print or red. Bold enough to wear if your outfit is all black, because it makes its own statement. It’s a very casual clutch, but can easily have you looking baddie from work to happy hour.

4. MAGNETIC CLOSURE CLUTCH

Dream green! This would be the perfect example of an everyday clutch. This is the clutch that compliments any outfit, and gives you that girly appeal, if your outfit falls short.

5. Christian Louboutin Riviera Clutch

This cute little neon number will be sure to catch the eyes of everyone you strut pass, and there’s nothing wrong with that! Stylish, sleek, bold, and unique. Those are just a few words that will describe you as you carry this clutch.

6. Sophie Hulme Envelope Clutch

Tangerine Springs! What girl doesn’t love a pop of boldness every once in a while? This bright clutch is beautiful, and it’s perfect for work then for drinks, as it can transform from shoulder bag to clutch. This cute little number is stylish and can also be an everyday look.

7. ALEXANDER MCQUEEN Embellished Duchesse Knucklebox Clutch

Your after-five look wouldn’t be complete without a clutch that’s not pearled out like this one! Pearls never go out of season, and they can make any outfit look like it’s worth more than what you might have actually paid.

8. FRACTURED CLUTCH

This is such a pretty statement clutch. Perfect to wear with your Little White Dress. This pretty little clutch comes in resin and chrome, and it is absolutely gorgeous!

Comment which clutch is your favorite!

Have you picked out your perfect clutch for spring?

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FRIENDSHIPS LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

FRIEND vs. FRIENEMIE: SHOULD YOU DO BUSINESS?

By Neyara Nior March 16, 2015August 16, 2017 1 147

Doing business with friends is a topic that some stay away from. Some people are all for it, while others are totally against it. One thing is certain, before you do business with anyone, you have to know who you’re dealing with, and if true colors surface later, listen to Maya Angelou: “When someone shows you who they are—Believe Them!”

If you truly know who your friends are, there won’t be a problem if you do business with each other, and it could possibly enhance your friendship in a positive way. If you know that your personalities will clash with the vigorous scheduling and tight work schedule, then of course, doing business will not be the best thing to do, as there will be many late nights, and trust will be tested on a regular basis. Ground rules must be set, a plan of action needs to be put into place to work through the business plan, and you all must have the same vision and end goal in mind.

Working with friends, is about overcoming the difficult situations, and working through the uncomfortable moments that matter. As friends if one of you are unhappy with an outcome, you have to take time to sit down, and give each other the opportunity to both say how you feel, understand what each other are saying because both of your feelings are valid. Then begins the process of moving forward, and making conscious efforts to be effective still while meeting everyone’s desires. That’s how real women take charge-friends or not.

However, it seems that many women don’t know how to choose friends, or it could be that we as women put too much on the table in the beginning. Women gain “frenemies”, or in nicer words acquaintances, because they put too much trust in untrustworthy people, and untrustworthy people will turn on you! When you make new “friends” you have to treat it like a real relationship, because in the end it will be.

Start on page one and you move forward one page at a time. Don’t move to chapter eight, because you like what they’ve shown you in a few days. Take time and feel people out, especially those who you want to invest in. You don’t have to put your whole life story on the table, with who you know, and how you plan to be successful. Don’t give chapters one through thirteen over dinner one night in a short synopsis.

You should never be putting more out than the other person, unless you are the CEO. If this is an equal business endeavor, it should be an equal give and take process. You’re building not only a friendship, but you’re building a work relationship. Going through things, and seeing how people handle situations help you to determine if someone has good character and are worthy to be your friend. No more meeting and instantly you’re besties.

Be wise about who you tell your business to, and who you do business with. Doing business with friends can be a beautiful thing, if you both have an understanding of each other, and are both working towards the same goal. However, when you mistake frenemies for friends, that’s when ugly situations arise, and you’ll become vulnerable, because you’ve shared your all, and they will use your all against you.

Do you know who your friends, and freneimies are? Do you believe in doing business with friends?

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HUMAN INTEREST LIFESTYLE WORD OF ADVICE

2015: NEW YEAR, NEW YOU!

By Neyara Nior December 19, 2014August 16, 2017 0 193

New Year’s Resolutions will be rolling in shortly–if they haven’t started already. Most people are already thinking about what 2015 will have in store for them, what they want to improve and what more they want to accomplish. Although everyday you learn something new, and should be improving and enhancing yourself daily, the New Year is like a clean slate to many.

So what can you do to enhance and improve yourself and love?

Just like loosing weight, and poor eating, bad relationships should be something you should cleanse yourself of too. A bad relationship doesn’t always have to be with the person you’re dating. Bad relationships can be at work, school, or with family. A bad relationship is a bad relationship and it can plague your health just like not exercising, or eating fast food everyday.

So when thinking of what your New Year’s Resolutions for 2015 will be, add something to improve you and your relationships with others. Try these:

I’m no longer chasing and begging people to love me who treat me like I’m worthless.

I won’t judge myself off of what other people do.

I won’t continue to take love from the wrong man or woman.

I will love me more. I will choose me first.

Write these down, and put them on your wall, or somewhere you can see them everyday.

Let 2015 be about letting those people who hurt you, and don’t grow you go. All of those people who you aren’t sure about, the people who don’t dream as big as you, the ones who keep you stuck, disrespect you, use you or are just taking up space in your life: LET THEM GO!

You have to make the decision to let go of the things that are stressing and hurting you.

2015 will be here really soon, so if the New Year is your clean slate get ready. Make everything you do count, and don’t let anyone stop you from achieving your vision of success.

What’s your New Year’s Resolution?

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LIFESTYLE WORD OF ADVICE

7 THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU’RE BORED

By Baddie Girl Team August 11, 2014August 16, 2017 0 550

Let’s be honest, being lazy can be relaxing and comfortable, but being bored is like experiencing a slow and painful death. It’s time to take full control of our lives. Do not let this World pass you by because you feel like you have nothing to do. There are so many things to do, both outside, and in the comfort of your home.

Here are some things that you can do to help pass time, keep your brain working, and overall be free and live.

7. MAKE YOUR BED

Start off your day with something productive as making a bed. This is the easiest thing you can do; therefore it should be the first thing you do. If you feel like you can’t get out the bed, when you get up to go to the bathroom, and you come back to your room, make your bed, and go to another part of your home. Once your bed is made, and your room looks neat you won’t want to mess it up, plus coming home to a clean room will bring you peace.

6. PUT TOGETHER A PUZZLE

This is the old school brain game. Although it can get frustrating, it keeps your mind busy, and takes your mind off all of the other craziness that may be going on around you. If you don’t want to go hardcore and do a thousand piece puzzle, do a five-hundred piece puzzle. Turn on the television, or play some music while you put together your puzzle, and stay in your comfy clothes! It’s all about relaxing, and keeping your mind busy on something positive.

5. CLEAN OUT YOUR CLOSET

Spring may be coming to a close, but its never a bad time to get those clothes out of your closet that you haven’t worn since you were in high school. If you haven’t worn it in the last year, donate it! You’ll feel more organized, and the bonus is, you’ll have space for new clothes!

4. READ A BOOK

If you haven’t already found a book, go to your local book store, and find something by your favorite author, then go to the park, or your back yard and read. If you need a recommendation, there are plenty suggestions here.

3. TRY A NEW RESTUARANT

Don’t stick to what you know, try something different. Try a new restaurant or if you have a favorite restaurant, try a new dish. Call your girlfriends, and make a girls day out of it. Your girlfriends should also be your network of positive energy. So there’s no need to worry about all of the things that aren’t going the best in your life. Live in the moment and enjoy the food, girl talk and good drinks!

2. DO YOUR MAEUP

You think the little things don’t make a difference? It’s all in the little things! You may not feel like actually putting on a full face of makeup, but do it anyway! Go for a glamourous look or keep it chic and natural. Having your face done will make you feel brand new. I promise as soon as you finish putting the mascara on your lashes, you’ll be ready to get out the house and do something.

1. TRY A DIY PROJECT

Do you have something old that you can refurbish? Take your time, and turn it into a one of a kind piece. It could be anything from a pair of shorts to a night stand you want to make stand out. There are so many projects on Pinterest that you can take advantage of you should never get bored. Depending on the project you can call your girlfriends over, or make your boo help you. Who wouldn’t love to hang out while bringing something that has depreciated into a masterpiece of value.

It is so easy to let laziness, depression or just “I Ain’t Gonna Do It” set in, but you have to put yourself together and enjoy everyday. Things may not always go your way, but remember you have the authority to make everyday count. Go out and rediscover what fun really is!

What are you going to do when boredom strikes?

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DATING LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

NO MORE MR. WRONG! HOW TO PREPARE FOR YOUR MR. RIGHT

By Neyara Nior July 2, 2014August 16, 2017 0 242

It’s not about finding your Mr. Right, it’s about preparing yourself for your perfect mate. He will be your Mr. Right.

“Where the good men at?” “I’m looking for my Mr. Right!” “Where is my Mr. Right?”

I’ve heard it, you’ve heard it, your momma has heard, and I can promise you, your grandmother has heard it too! Finding a good man has been the topic in all the girl talks around the world, and is usually the start to some good girlfriend conversation. But enough! I’m here to help my Baddie Girl’s out with this, so that we can put an end to the epidemic of women who are constantly asking, “Where is my Mr. Right?”

First things first, stop looking for a “Mr. Right.” Your Mr. Right does exist, but it is not your job to look for him. He should find you. You aren’t a hunter trying to capture a lion! So take off your looking for a man sneakers, and put your heels back on.

When I say don’t look for Mr. Right, this doesn’t mean you just sit at home, and hope he pops up when you need to run for gas, or go grocery shopping. No. You want to go live your life. You know what you like to do, so do it! Get out and go to places, and events that you love. Go wine tasting, or try that ballroom class you’ve been putting off. It’ll be easier to attract a great guy, that thinks you’re beautiful, and the awesome thing is that you will already have something in common.

An important element in preparing for your Mr. Right is showing yourself respect. You must present yourself accordingly. You attract what you put out. When you leave the house, you should walk with confidence, and know that you are worthy of greatness. In doing this, your attire, and attitude should compliment each other. If you dress like a lady, and act as one, you will attract a gentleman; if you dress risque, and act out of order, you will attract a guy that more interested in your physical attributes.

On the contrary, what you don’t want to do, is go to places where couples flock. So that couple’s cooking class your girlfriend asked you to go to with her, don’t go, because you’ll feel like the odd woman out when everyone there is coupled up with their special lover, and you’re there with your best friend. You also shouldn’t call your girlfriends, and say, “Where the men at tonight?” I understand, not wanting to be around a bunch of women every time you go out, when you’re trying to meet some nice men in your area. In order to come across those men, you have to not look for them, or think hard about it, but go out and have fun!

The hardest part in preparing for your Mr. Right, is knowing how to respectfully reject those men who don’t fit your needs. This sounds harsh, but it’s real life. There’s no need to take a guy’s number, whom you don’t intend on texting or calling ever in life, or giving your number to a guy who you don’t want texting or calling you. Being led on, with nowhere to go, doesn’t feel good, and in the end someone always gets hurt. So don’t lead a man on to no man’s land. If you’re not interested in a guy who is clearly interested in you, don’t have him waste anymore time on you, to stroke your ego. Politely let him know that you are not interested. No need to block your blessing, or his.

It’s simple. The keys to preparing yourself for your Mr. Right is, to stop looking for him, and let him find you; live your life doing the things you love to do; know yourself, and what you like; present yourself with the respect you desire, and know how to say no to the guys you are not interested in.

Now get out, and do what you love!

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BADDIE TV EVENT COVERAGE EXCLUSIVE

EATING WITH ERICA’S LITTLE BLACK DRESS

By Neyara Nior May 20, 2014August 16, 2017 0 219

Over the weekend, Erica of Eating With Erica hosted a Little Black Dress Brunch at SaltYard in Buckhead. She gathered many women to put on their favorite little black dress, eat and have fun.

We were treated to a four course meal. I had a kale salad, French toast with blueberry pecan maple syrup (homemade), I skipped the third course from being extremely full, and for desert I had the chocolate nemesis. The best part were the bottomless mimosas…what a great evening.

I met some amazing women at this brunch, and caught up with some old friends.

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Congratulations to Erica for putting on an extraordinary event. It was absolutely fabulous and I look forward to eating with you again soon!

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Don’t hesitate too long.

Don’t expect too much.

Don’t appreciate too little.

Don’t love too late.

Don’t give up too soon.

Learn how to pack your clutch, and choose items that you need. Everything in your purse isn’t essential, so leave the unnecessary behind.

10. Lipgloss/Lipstick:

9. Powder:

8. Compact Mirror:

7. Mini Perfume/Body Oil:

6. Mints/Gum:

5. License, Debit Card, Cash & Change:

4. Phone charger:

3. Hand Sanitizer:

2. Stain Remover Pen:

1. Condoms:

1. Kate Spade New York Holly Street Remi Clutch

2. Women’s Rebecca Minkoff ‘Leo’ Envelope Clutch

3. Debutante Straw Wristlet

4. MAGNETIC CLOSURE CLUTCH

5. Christian Louboutin Riviera Clutch

6. Sophie Hulme Envelope Clutch

7. ALEXANDER MCQUEEN Embellished Duchesse Knucklebox Clutch

8. FRACTURED CLUTCH

Have you picked out your perfect clutch for spring?

7. MAKE YOUR BED

6. PUT TOGETHER A PUZZLE

5. CLEAN OUT YOUR CLOSET

4. READ A BOOK

3. TRY A NEW RESTUARANT

2. DO YOUR MAEUP

1. TRY A DIY PROJECT

It’s not about finding your Mr. Right, it’s about preparing yourself for your perfect mate. He will be your Mr. Right.