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5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR COVER LETTER STAND OUT!

Although it seems as though everyone is hiring, many are still without jobs. But the problem may be that people seem to only focus on their resume’s and not their cover letter’s which is a BIG NO-NO. Some employers won’t even look at your resume’ if it doesn’t have a cover letter.

The former Vice President of News, Ms. Edwards, at NBC once told me that if you send her a résumé without a cover letter the application is incomplete and it makes the person look tacky, and as if they put no time into applying for the job.

Some people don’t know this, and I understand, if no one tells you, how will you know. So here are a few tips for your cover letter. If you use these basic tips they should help you to stand out, and make you look good in ink!

1. LOOK THE PART

Realize that your cover letter is like your thirty-second elevator pitch for yourself. You have to look the part, and present yourself like you want the job. Your cover letter is usually the first thing a potential employer sees, so make sure your heading is nice, and your spacing is perfect. Make sure it looks presentable, and as if you spent time on it. Perfection is in the smallest details!

2. CUSTOMIZE IT TO THE EMPLOYER

You wouldn’t want a card sent to you saying “To Whom This May Concern” so don’t put it on your cover letter. People like to feel important and Google and LinkedIn is too amazing for you to not find out who has what position, their phone number, and email and sometimes physical address. Use your resources!

3. TAILOR IT!

You should talk about the position you are applying for and what you can contribute to the company. Nothing should be generic about your cover letter except for your name at the end. Talk about what makes you unique, and don’t be afraid to brag, just don’t go overboard. You’re trying to get noticed! You want to show them that you are the best fit for the job, and that you’ll be a great member of their company family. Most importantly, use words that are in the job description, it’s there for a reason! Those are the key words in finding your application to begin with. Read it and use it!

4. KEEP IT SIMPLE

Do not let your cover letter run over a page. Also keep your paragraphs short! Three to four short paragraphs with two to three sentences each will do. Have things stand out as well by using bullet points. Make sure your bullet points tell your strengths, because they probably will read your opening and go straight to the bullet points. It’s no secret that employers skim your information; no one has time to actually read every cover letter and resume that comes across their desk.

5. NO ERRORS

You don’t want to lose the position simply because you don’t know the difference between: there, their, and they’re, or bored and board. Also, this is not a text conversation! No LOL, HMU, TTYL! Check, recheck it, and have a friend who is business savvy look it over too before sending it out. 

Remember, your cover letter is the first hello. Keep it conversational, and let your personality shine through. The job of your dreams await you!

Have you updated your résumé?

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AN EXCLUSIVE TALK WITH ACTRESS TANJAREEN MARTIN

Tanjareen Martin is an actress who is not shy to play any character, because she can instantly own any part. Despite the many different personalities she’s had to embody, when you meet her, and talk to her, you’ll see she’s like a big sister: full of advice, and experience. You may know the sun-kissed beauty from Johnson Family Vacation, Miss March and Love For Sale, to name a few. I had the wonderful opportunity to interview  Ms. Martin (Twitter: @Tanjareen), and we talked about everything! The best part is she didn’t hold back on anything! Here is what she told me:

On ZANE’s “The Jump Off” Series

I wasn’t sure if I wanted to expose myself, because in my last film, Miss March, I showed my breasts, but it was a comedy, and it was one of the favorited scenes of the film.  I was very happy with my decision, because when it came out and tested, everyone wrote in their papers that they loved my scenes. So I thought, I don’t want to show my boobs again, I don’t want to be stamped as the girl who flashes her boobs around town, but they kept calling me, and Amin (Joseph) asked me to audition personally, and I thought well you know what? This could be fun, since we already have a chemistry—we’re already friends, so let me just go ahead and go to the audition, and see what they’re talking about.

I asked the guy I was dating at the time; “Hey, do yo mind if I happen to audition for a Zane show?” He was like “You know what, do your thing, its acting, why not.” That gave me the extra push. I went and Amin was in the audition with me and we had such a great read together, that they called me the next day and told me “You have the part, you start tomorrow, we’re about to email you 13 scripts to read them so you can be ready.” I was like “Whoa, whoa, whoa, slow down,” but they were like we’ve been looking for this character for over a month, and finally you came in and worked with Amin, and you nailed it! So I think Amin played a big part in me actually wanting to do the part, and being free enough to do a sex scene.

Being An African-American Actress

I can honestly say that most of my work, especially from urban films or TV, have come from relationship. Auditioning has gotten me some of the main stream roles, but for some reason people in the urban world are told they have to hire a name, they don’t really look out for new talent too much.

So I think that’s why people like Marlon Wayans, as big as he is, he went out and made A Haunted House because he said there aren’t a lot of parts for Blacks, so I have to make my own. And my family, we’ll write our own roles, because no one is writing roles for us—and that’s the truth.

Hollywood doesn’t usually cast a dark Black leading man with a dark Black female love interest. Perhaps middle America finds that too threatening. Therefore, if I had a curly fro, I could probably do a bunch more McDonald’s commercials. If I was of mixed-ethnicity, maybe I would get cast more as a leading lady in mainstream projects, but I love being a chocolate girl! It works for me.

Celebrities She Admires

Regina King, Kerry Washington, Jennifer Garner, Taraji P. Henson, Angela Basset,  and Pam Grier

Why: They show that you have to know your character before you step on set, you have to know what they want out of a scene. How they would dress, how they would wear their hair, what color would their polish be? You can’t just show up, these women really invest in preparing, and that influences me.

Words Of Wisdom To Aspiring Actors

  1. Build your resume up.
  2. Study, take classes, read books, watch biographies, and learn from other’s mistakes.
  3. Respect everyone on the set. Hollywood is so small, so be the person that you’d want to work with over and over again.

Why She Chose To Document Her Celibate Life

I used to attend a huge church in L.A. that had about 20-thousand members, and most of us were single. The pastor would preach a lot about fornication, and how that was a huge sin and I felt really convicted; really guilty like I was a thief, robber or murderer. So I decided to practice celibacy and wait for marriage. It lasted for three years.

During those three years there were so many funny stories about the way guys treated me when they realized I was serious. A lot of girls say it, but then you take a shot of Hennessy and all of a sudden you’re in your panties. But [the guys] would realize that I really wasn’t doing anything, but then there was that whole “How far will you go?” I would talk to my home girls, and I realized they were going through the same thing trying to be celibate, and guys were trying to press, “how much can we do?”

How serious is a relationship if the guy can’t be physical with you? Is he going to date you with someone else on the side? Because it’s a need? I said I was going to write a book on it, but then I realized I don’t feel like writing a book, and no one feels like reading all the time. I decided to make this easy, so I created a YouTube page. I wanted to put something out there that was five minutes, so the book became a web series.

What She Learned Through Her Celibacy

I learned my energy. When I save myself and I’m not having sex, I’m able to accomplish a lot more because I’m not focusing on dating. There is something spiritual about saving your sexual energy and putting that energy into getting things done—completing tasks, following your goals, and knocking things off the checklist. This happened a lot easier when I was celibate.

I also learned the truth about the guy I liked, because we became friends instead of just somebody they were trying to smash. They immediately tagged me in the friend zone, and I got to know the real them, and a lot of them are still my friends 5-10 years later, because I really had no choice but to get to know them. Once you sleep with somebody, you start to become blind to their faults, and they don’t have to be their real self anyway, but when you’re not sleeping with them, you find out, “oh he does have a drinking problem.”

 On Being A Vegetarian

My smoothies are my morning coffee. I do vegan soul food dinners at my house, and I do give recipes out to friends on vegan dishes. I take a dish that you love, and I teach you how to make it vegan. People are really impressed because there’s no meat, cheese, or milk, and the dish that they grew up eating is so much healthier for them, their body, their heart, and their blood.

You too can Eat Clean with Tanjareen!

The Biggest Misconception People Have About Her

[People] probably think because I dress really sexy I’m not as bright as I am or that I might be easier to get with than I am, but once people get to know me they always tell me that they had no idea how I really am. The real me, is super Earthy. I buy everything organic; I don’t drink soda or coffee; I’m really spiritual; I donate to the homeless every week; I’m really into making photo cards. I read a lot, I’m sure that when people look at me, they don’t go, she probably has a huge book collection, but I do!

I think I dress this way because when I was doing the celibacy thing I was so insecure about having hips and a butt that I wore baggy clothes; but I have come to a point where I can embrace my hips and thighs, and I’m proud of my curves. But that doesn’t mean I’m going to have sex with you, it just means I like my shape.

About Her Upcoming Projects

I have my own project “The Celibate Nympho Chronicles.” I have more episodes to release and more to produce. That’s the web series about my dating life, or lack there of. So far Malik Yoba, Rodney Perry, Tony Rock, Wesley Jonathan, and other celebrities have made guest appearances. It follows my journey on trying to hold out from giving up the snatch until I find the right guy—its not easy.

You can find it on YouTubeFunny or Die, and Vimeo.

A Message To Her Supporters

I need you, I love you, and I appreciate you, and stick with me, because there are a lot of sides to me, and you’ll never know what’s going to come up next, but I definitely promise that it will be shocking. I try not to do anything that is expected. I’m not important without you, and it is going to be a fun journey!

Fun Facts!

  1. Tanjareen likes to put on her bikini, grab her blanket and lay out at the park.
  2. She likes TrueBlood and nighttime soap operas like Scandal and The Sopranos.
  3. She decided at 6-years old that she would be an actress after acting in her first play as the gingerbread man in “Hansel and Gretel”

Be sure to catch Tanjareen on Zane’s “The Jump Off” on Cinemax and on TVone’s “Family Time”!

*Posted intially on 5/16/13*

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MEET ASHLEE BABBS OF BELLAAMORE HAIR

Started in June of 2014, BellaAmore Hair was started to help the everyday woman buy luxury hair for an affordable price. Ashlee Babbs, founder of BellaAmore Hair, knows from first hand experience how expensive quality hair can be, and how much more money we have to invest in the install as well.

How is BellaAmore Hair able to make their products affordable?

BellaAmore Hair has bundle deals, student discounts, and if you stay up to date with them on socially, you can be apart of their giveaways!

BellaAmore Hair sells a variety of 5A grade hair, including Brazilian, Malaysian and Peruvian in the forms of straight, body wave, and loose wave. FYI: The grade of hair is determined by the year of the donor. If the grade is 7A, that means that the hair donor is a younger person, usually 15 years of age or younger. BellaAmore sells grade 5A, which means the hair donor is 25-30 years old.

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What are some goals for BellaAmore Hair?

  • To become a household name, and have a strong presence in people’s homes.
  • Growing the BellaAmore sisterhood within the Officially Kissed Sorority distribution program; making BellaAmore Hair the “Mary-Kay” of hair.
  • To be able to donate a small amount, from each order that is placed to a charity.

Ashlee has a lot of insight in starting and investing in your own company. She says that once she made her company into an official LLC, she wasn’t scared. Her advice to the Badd Girl Society is:

“Don’t be scared! I have a degree in Political Science, so when I started my business, I had to learn everything. There are a lot of things people pass up because they’re scared. I’m now reaping the benefits of success. Have confidence in your business!”

She also wants us to know that it takes money to make money, and that you have to invest in yourself and your company. You have to do the proper research, and be sure to write everything down, and keep your receipts.

Want to know a couple of fun facts about Ashlee?

She’s a lieutenant in the military! She’s also a human resource manager, and she’ll be deporting for Kuwait soon. But there’s no need to worry. Even though she’s leaving, you can still place orders, and you’ll receive the great affordable hair you wanted with a guarantee of great customer service.

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If you’re interested in becoming a distributor for BellaAmore Hair, and joining in this unique sisterhood, be sure to check out Officially Kissed Sorority.

Check out these review videos!

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NO MORE RAINY DAYS: 4 WAYS TO SAVE MONEY

Don’t save for rainy days, save to keep them sunny! Here are a few ways to save money so that you can have everything that you want.

“You save money to keep from having rainy days!”

That’s what my mom would tell me when it came to saving money.

“Always have money, because you never know what may happen. You don’t want a situation to happen that costs hundreds of dollars that you need, and it leaves you in the hole. Budget wisely,” she’d tell me.

(She’s an accountant, so I guess she would know.)

Here are four easy ways to save money:

1. COOK MORE, EAT OUT LESS!

Rest in peace to all the money spent on fast food this year alone. How many meals have you cooked this year? Have you made any effort to cook?

Eating out gets costly, and eating fast food everyday is dangerous. I’m not saying that eating healthy is cheaper, because it can be costly too, but it is not as unhealthy and costly as ordering a number two-larged, for seven days straight. Cook a meal every Sunday, or on the day you have some free time. Left-overs aren’t going to kill you. If you can’t get enough of eating out, try and make it count and eat out only on the weekends, you can start with Friday.

2. PLAN AHEAD!

Want to go out of town for the weekend next month? or buy ten new outfits for the season? or purchase some new bundles of hair  for an event at the end of the year?

Then it’s time to start setting extra money aside along with the money you should be putting aside for your savings. Planning ahead is all about budgeting. You need to know how much whatever it is you want will cost. Once you know that number figure out a date that you want to purchase it. When you know the cost and date you want it buy, you can start saving, whether you’re putting an extra $50 or $100 dollars to the side. But remember to still put aside your regular savings money. Be smart about your money, you’ve worked too hard for it.

3. COUPUN IT!

Did you forget about the Sunday paper? They still get printed, and have so many coupons available.

Coupons are not for the frugal, but for the money conscious person who knows the value of a dollar. This is one thing you don’t have to be extreme about although there are many who are. Even if you don’t want to buy the paper, you can go to your favorite brand company website, and they usually have many coupons available. There are also many sites that have coupons waiting to be used. Also, read the coupon, you don’t have to get what’s pictured, there are usually a list of products for you to choose from. See? Knowledge is power!

4. GIRLS NIGHT IN!

Picture it! Your besties, board games, girl talks, good laughs, delicious food and lots of champagne. Sounds like fun, huh? I know!

Spending a night in with your girls, can be just as much fun as going out. The plus is that you can save more money because you won’t have to pay for parking, an entrance fee, food, drinks, and whatever else. Hanging with friends will be fun no matter what, so have a budget friendly night in one or two nights a month. You can cook, everyone can bring a dish, or you can order wings, and make a few sides. I promise you’ll save money, and still have fun

What are you doing to save your money to keep your days sunny?

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PLUS SIZE DIVAS IN RARE AND “NFINITE FORM”

Paula Michelle and Trese’ don’t take it lightly when they say they want to take over the world – even Hollywood supports their movement. What are they after? A revolution for the woman who has been overlooked in society…the plus-sized woman.

It’s time to reinvent that woman, and this is just the mother-and-daughter duo for the job. I recently chatted with Paula about their Nfinite Form line of clothing. (Trese was unavailable for comment.)

 

Kyra: What do you all take the most pride in concerning your company, Nfinite Form?

Paula: I would have to say making women feel special, because this is what I find missing in today’s society. We do not get that special factor; we’re just not made to feel special by society. Trese and I take great pride in bringing that specialness to women in general.

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Kyra: Tell me about the support you have gotten from Hollywood and the black community. I know actor Lamman Rucker participated in your New Jersey Full Figured Fashion Week.

Paula: When our models saw the lineup and caliber of stars that we had at the fashion shows, they felt really motivated by these talented individuals supporting them. The grand opening of our store was phenomenal; it was packed beyond capacity. The black community believes in what we believe in, that plus-size women should not be outcast.

 

Kyra: What is your perspective on promoting health for women, while simultaneously promoting self love and confidence in full-figured women?

Paula: We published an article defining “full-figured”, because society misunderstands. We embrace being full-figured; however, we have also given attention to reducing blood pressure, better diets and lower cholesterol. We will provide research and mentorship to help women be healthy.

Kyra: This goes deeper than apparel. What is your holistic message to women?

Paula: It starts with the mind. The mind is a very powerful muscle, but there are a lot of weak women because their self- esteem is low. You have to know your worth. You cannot begin to work on the body or the soul if the mind is not strong. It starts in the mind.

 

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Kyra: How did you and your daughter begin Nfinite Form? You have a degree in English, and your daughter has a degree in childhood education. How did this translate?

Paula: All of us in our family are plus-sized women, but I’m a fashonista and my daughter Trese has a passion for teaching. We recognized that plus-sized women were not being portrayed as beautiful, and we wanted to make an impact. We combined our creativity, teaching backgrounds and fashion sense and created Nfinite Form. We wanted to show the sensuality of the plus-size woman and put her back into society where she belongs!

 

Kyra: Wow! You are really passionate about your business! When is the next runway project?

Paula: Yes, we live and breathe it. We are getting ready for Time Square Fashion Week and we will showcase the plus-size women with the smaller-size women — no runway segregation.

 

Kyra: So where do you see your company going in the future?

Paula: We want to take Nfinite Form to all fashion shows around the world — London, Paris. Our vision is to take over the world. We want the plus-size woman to be recognized globally, and we are the women to do it!

For more, you can follow them here!

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